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*TW: SA*

This song is about SA and gaining the voice to say no and fighting for your autonomy in a society that just lets it happen and victim blames.


*TW: SA*

I don't feel special even though you swear I do
I don't want to stay but I'm so afraid
I feel like I have no choice

Here I go, what do I do? To make you stop?
What do I say, what can I do? To be okay?

No, I won't let you have me
No, I won't feel sorry for you
'Cause my existence matters more than you make me feel
And no one will force me to stay when I say no

Don't tell me it's my own fault when you should've known what means no
Verbal and non-verbal cues, haven't you heard?
Maybe you need to learn to ask first..

But here we go again, this time I won't give in
Let's see how I make it...
I'll put up a fight, I have every right to fight for my life tonight

No, I won't let you have me
No, I don't feel sorry for you
'Cause my existence still matters more than you made me feel
And you won't force me to stay when I say no


from Enough Already, released May 20, 2022
Jessie wrote the guitar, Debbie wrote the lyrics and the bass, and Caitlin added her drums. Jessie wrote the backups with some help from Eamon.

Mostly recorded, mixed and produced at the Coop by Eamon McMullen from The Pigeon Pack


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All girl punk/twee band from Brooklyn and Queens, New York.

Check out our new EP "Enough Already".

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